Apply a lot of lube near the urethral opening and to your toy.Get comfortable! Stand, sit, lie down, or whatever you like.Use gentle, unscented soap and warm water to wash your hands and your outer genital areas. Sterilize toys in boiling water or a betadine solution before you use them. Here’s our step-by-step guide to sounding safely. There’s a wide variety of textures, including: If you have a penis, some can wrap around your glans like a hoop with a ball attached that goes into the urethral opening. Others curve slightly or have bulges in the middle or at the ends. Choose a small one if you’re just starting out, and gradually increase the size by small increments.
The most common length is between 3 and 6 inches. Sounders range anywhere from half an inch to as long as you can imagine, up to about a foot in length or sometimes more. Silicone sounders are flexible and softer, but may be hard to slide in because of their textured surface. Titanium sounders are easier to insert and heavy enough to slide in on their own, but are inflexible. surgical-grade stainless steel or titanium.catheters, which are used in medical procedures and designed to go into your urethra.sounders, which are long, thin, and cylinder-shaped to go deeper into your urethra.plugs, which only go an inch or so into your urethra and may have a ball or hoop around them.Here are some things to keep in mind while you’re choosing a toy.